Being a good boyfriend isn't always easy, even if you have an amazing girlfriend. To be a good boyfriend, you have to know how to communicate with your girl, and how to be loving and affectionate without smothering her. A good boyfriend knows how to understand where his girlfriend is coming and when to give her space. If you want to know how to do it, just follow these steps.
Tips 1 : Communicate Well
Be honest.You should tell her what she needs to know without overwhelming her with the truth. If you had a serious past relationship, you can let her know without revealing every little detail about your ex.
Trust her. Trust your girlfriend and give her reason to trust you. Trust should form the foundation of your relationship; after all, love is a combination of trust and commitment.
You can make her trust you by showing that you care and are concerned if she tells you something personal and important to her.
Contribute equally to conversations.
Conversations are about give and take. You shouldn't just be telling her a long story, waiting for her to react.
Be a good listener.
Remember, a conversation with your girlfriend isn't just acknowledging, it's also about remembering. If your girlfriend is telling you about an important experience, don't just put the story in your short-term memory.
Learn to compromise.:-Compromise is a big part of successful communication.
After you and your girl both talk about what you think about a certain situation, you can work together to make a pro and con list, and to decide what will be best for both of you.
Tips 2 : Be Supportive
Compliment her sincerely
Be sympathetic-If it means something to her, it means something to you.
Tips 3 : Be Affectionate and Loving
Show affection often.
Don't overdo it
Make physical contact.
Appreciate her looks.
Give her presents on special occasions.
Tips 4 : Be Spontaneous
Keep your relationship fresh.
Get her a gift just because.
Take a surprise trip
Tips 5 : Maintain Your Independence
Give her space.
Take care of yourself.
Spend time with your separate friends.
Maintain some separate interests.
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